For decades, the conversation around autism and other neurological differences has centered on deficits—what individuals can’t do, what they struggle with, and how therapy can “fix” those challenges. But a growing and powerful movement is helping to change that narrative: neurodiversity.
Neurodiversity is the idea that neurological differences like autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and others are not disorders to be cured but natural variations of the human brain. Just as biodiversity helps ecosystems thrive, neurodiversity brings value and richness to our communities. At My Favorite Therapists, we believe in empowering every child to thrive—not by trying to make them fit into a mold, but by helping them develop the tools, confidence, and support they need to succeed as they are.
What Is Neurodiversity?
Coined in the late 1990s, the term “neurodiversity” promotes the idea that neurological differences are part of human diversity. People who are neurodivergent may think, feel, and experience the world differently—but different doesn’t mean broken.
This perspective encourages society to move away from the notion of “normal” and embrace different ways of learning, communicating, and interacting with the world. It’s about valuing individuals for their strengths and unique perspectives, not just focusing on their challenges.
From Fixing to Supporting
Traditional approaches to therapy have often focused on fixing behaviors that fall outside typical development. While skills development is still a critical part of helping children succeed, the neurodiversity movement asks us to rethink the goals of therapy. Rather than “normalizing” children, the emphasis shifts to supporting their independence, self-advocacy, emotional well-being, and personal goals.
Empowerment becomes the focus. What are the child’s strengths? What are their interests? How can we help them communicate more effectively, build meaningful relationships, and navigate the world in a way that feels safe and manageable for them?
Why Language Matters
The way we talk about autism and other neurodivergent conditions has a powerful impact. Phrases like “high-functioning” or “low-functioning” can be limiting and misleading. Similarly, describing autism as something that needs to be “treated” or “overcome” can unintentionally send the message that a child’s differences are undesirable.
At My Favorite Therapists, we use strengths-based, respectful language. We recognize each child as a whole person—not a diagnosis. And we collaborate closely with families to ensure that therapy goals reflect their child’s values, personality, and aspirations.
Creating Inclusive Spaces
Celebrating neurodiversity also means creating inclusive environments—at home, at school, and in the community. These spaces recognize sensory needs, communication preferences, and different learning styles. Inclusion isn’t just about being physically present; it’s about feeling valued and supported for who you are.
In therapy settings, this might mean offering quiet spaces, flexible routines, visual supports, and alternative communication tools. It means working with children, not on them—encouraging autonomy, choice-making, and the freedom to express themselves in ways that feel authentic.
Helping Families Embrace Neurodiversity
One of the most powerful things families can do is embrace their child’s neurodivergence with pride and curiosity. This begins by understanding that therapy isn’t about changing who a child is—it’s about giving them the tools they need to flourish on their own terms.
We encourage parents to learn about neurodiversity, connect with advocacy groups, and seek out communities that celebrate neurological differences. These connections can be empowering and provide a sense of belonging—for both children and their families.
The Future Is Neurodiverse
Celebrating neurodiversity doesn’t mean ignoring challenges. Many neurodivergent individuals still need support in areas like communication, social interaction, and executive functioning. But by focusing on empowerment rather than correction, we open the door to a more compassionate, inclusive, and accepting world.
At My Favorite Therapists, we’re proud to be part of that shift. We support children not because we want to change who they are, but because we believe in who they are—completely and unapologetically.
If you’re looking for a therapy center that sees your child through a lens of strength, capability, and potential, we’re here for you. Let’s celebrate every child’s journey—just as they are.
